26 Male Survivors Of Sexual Assault Quoting The People Who Attacked Them
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no one seems to care if they are guys
reminder that rape and sexual abuse happens to everyone, not just girls
reminder that rape and sexual abuse needs to be acknowledged no matter a person’s gender and “no one seems to care if they are guys” is a typical antifeminist theory that is disproven by the fact that this photo set has 100,000+ notes alone
Xavier Dolan mon amour.
Depictions of Lesbianism by Henri Toulouse Lautrec
During his life, Lautrec spent a lot of time in Montmarte, the bohemian centre of 19th century Paris and home to artists, philosophers, writers, performers, and prostitutes. He spent a lot of time with the sex workers there, and discovered that many of them had intimate relationships with one another.
Lautrec’s depiction of lesbianism is particularly notable because it doesn’t fetishise sexual intimacy between women or present it as spectacle for the male gaze. Lautrec was trying to capture small, tender moments in the lives of the women he met, and he did so with humanity and sensitivity. In a world of constructed sexuality and fantasy, he finds the real relationships, and reveals to us the hidden lives of queer women in the 19th century.
Fin-de-siècle Paris was the capital of lesbianism. However, until the mid century, and despite the acknowledgment of male homosexuality, female homosexuality had been considered absurd. This scepticism was grounded in the fact that many nineteenth-century psychologists and medical professionals did not believe in female sexual impulse. Thus, when instances of lesbianism were reported in Alexandre Parent-Duchâtelet’s 1836 study of prostitution in Paris, lesbianism came to be understood as an activity associated with the Montmartre counterculture and, in particular, with prostitution. Indeed, deluxe houses of tolerance often functioned as specialty brothels that catered for a clientele with particular fetishes, such as tableaux vivants where ‘inmates, entirely naked, abandon themselves to homosexual practices on a large black velvet carpet or in rooms hung with black satin to bring out the whiteness of their bodies’. This was lesbianism as commercial spectacle, performed within a closed environment for male consumption.
Lesbianism in the public realm was a sexual preference that, while common, was negatively judged by French conservative society and for this reason was conducted with subtlety and partially obscured. In fact, many of the biggest stars of the Parisian circuses, dance halls and café-concerts were lesbian or bisexual, including Jane Avril and May Milton (whom, it is generally agreed, had a short-lived love affair), Sarah Bernhardt, Cha-u-ka-o and La Goulue. Whilst these Montmartre celebrities were depicted on multiple occasions by Lautrec, the artist chose to represent them as skilled professionals, never exploiting their sexual preference as the main focus of his compositions. So subtle was Lautrec in his treatment of these themes that art historians such as David Sweetman have gone so far as to argue that ‘It comes as something of a shock to realise that most of the women … were in fact lesbians and that quite a few were lovers. So many, in fact, that it is possible to argue that lesbianism is the hidden subtext of much of the art of Henri’s mature years.’
- from nga.gov.au
1. At the Moulin Rouge: The Women Dancing
2. In Bed
3. The Kiss
4. Two Friends
5. Les Deux Amies
It’s a metaphor for hipsterism. People have that word on their lips constantly, but I feel like they don’t really know what hipsterism is. For me, hipsterism is for one to appropriate the codes of a social class or another milieu that wasn’t theirs originally, in order to define their personality through something different and unique. Which is why a lot of hipsters live downtown and they’re dressed as farmers. Then you have the Oscar Wilde hipster: the dandy. But pushed to the extreme. The edge. People are costumed. It’s a disguise or something. For me, that’s a sign of loss of [lengthy pause] people believing in themselves, and of self-confidence. I think what Tom is trying to do, since a part of him has been erased through the loss of his other half, is re-define who he is and rewrite who he is. That can only happen through a lie, and through the appropriation of another code: that of the farm.
Xavier Dolan about Tom At The Farm.
Lauren Bacall and Humphrey Bogart resting at a cafe in Paris, 1953
He pasado por muchas formas de angustia y de infiernos. Conocí el miedo y la terrible soledad. Amigos falsos como los tranquilizantes y estupefacientes. La prisión de la depresión y de los sanatorios mentales. De todo salí un día deslumbrado, pero desilusionado.
Yves Saint Laurent. (Discurso de renuncia a su propia Casa de Alta Costura).
Uma Thurman photographed by David LaChapelle.
Leonardo DiCaprio as Marlon Brando by David Lachapelle.